Studies have been conducted on the effects of deployment on children. The child isn't really effected until they reach school age. From the time the deployed parent leaves to the time they come back is a different experience. Studies have shown that girls showed more anxiety when the parent left, while boys showed it when the parent returned. There are also so many factors in conducted studies that so many things can make different results. The way the at home parent handles the stress is one of these things. The child learns how to deal with it from that parent. Children were also seen to act out more and want attention. Operation Military Kids, an organization sponsored by the ARMY Child and Youth Services and the University of Vermont. It helps bring families and kids together, as they interact with people their own age who know what it's like for a parent to be deployed. Children's behavior is also effected negatively when the parent has to be re-deployed
Not only does deployment effect the family at home, but the soldier as well. Dealing with war can be stressful and people see things that they wouldn't normally see leading to detachment of real world, nightmares, anxiety, and strain on family communication. Parents are a big part of a child's life growing up, and there have been support groups helping to keep families together.
With the stress of war often leading to abusive behavior, the government has provided programs for soldiers and other government support groups to help keep the family together. They are also working with veterans to help them stay sane well after they've served.
I didn't know that acts of increased healthcare ere being made to help soldiers/veterans with the effects of war. They saw the importance of mental health. Soldiers taking tours in the Middle East showed drastic signs of mental health issues. I didn't thin of gender as a factor when first researching about this but it is an important one. It effects children's behaviors on how they handle it. I know that there are some families who get through it all, while others fall apart. It's a different story for everyone.
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Why I chose the topic of army families.
Through high school, I have been more exposed to the "army life" with my involvement in JROTC. I've found it as interesting and a possible career path with me. I want to major in International Affairs at North Georgia and also minor or double major in Arabic. I am currently considering trying to be in Military Intelligence afterward, but I also want a family. I know I want be on the front lines, but I wonder if government work still puts a strain on families and their relationships n matter how close they live. This made me wonder, what are the hardships and differences that army families have than regular families. I know that with a parent in the army, kids can be greatly impacted and so can marriages. The fear of death can also be a problem when you're loved one is on the front lines and as some people have dreaded that knock on their door, it has decided to come anyway.
Some spouses may both be in the army and I wonder what happens to the kids. Do they grow up with their parents getting shipped in and out of their lives, or does one of them have to settle down. I want to see a little of what is the Army's policy, by showing the effect these policies may have on a family. Families might also have their own policies.
The person going into the army may have problems coping with war as well, which puts a strain on human communication, when other people don't understand. I want to see the actual effects and more in depth details on certain people's situations. I also want to know how people try to manage the problems and the stress. Military people don't always have to be on the front lines, but they might get stationed in different places, taking their family with them. The kids have to start over, as does the spouse. When does trying to make it work not work and what happens when you're left with no one, who was taken away by something they so aspired to defeat?
Some spouses may both be in the army and I wonder what happens to the kids. Do they grow up with their parents getting shipped in and out of their lives, or does one of them have to settle down. I want to see a little of what is the Army's policy, by showing the effect these policies may have on a family. Families might also have their own policies.
The person going into the army may have problems coping with war as well, which puts a strain on human communication, when other people don't understand. I want to see the actual effects and more in depth details on certain people's situations. I also want to know how people try to manage the problems and the stress. Military people don't always have to be on the front lines, but they might get stationed in different places, taking their family with them. The kids have to start over, as does the spouse. When does trying to make it work not work and what happens when you're left with no one, who was taken away by something they so aspired to defeat?
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
3. Arthur Miller, Viking Press New York,NY:1953
First off I don't get why Danforth would think that Proctor would see all the people that others saw with the devil. he could've seen somebody totally different and they just assume that the same people will always show up at the devil's side, like they're all trying to get John Proctor. I was surprised that he was kind of selling out, but I couldn't blame him. Him and his wife were going through hell and she was pregnant, so I guess that's kind of a reason to live. He started out agreeing with them, but when they wanted documentation he kind of cracked. He didn't want to become a sell out if other people would be a witness to it, his pride got the best of him. It sucks how it was either lie or die in this Christian village. Most of the disputes were over jealousy and land, but when the fever died down, nobody wanted the land. Mr. parris got what he deserved, getting voted out of office. His hate for John Proctor was so great that I bet he loved it when he was confessing, because I bet a part of him knew that the truth had flown out the window a long time ago and that Proctor was in a lose lose situation. Of course Proctor chose death instead of selling out, Abagail mentioning Elizabeth Proctor's name was for nothing, John was just brought down with her and died instead. How can such a child be so vicious and naive, so quick to lie. I never understood how some one could be so vile, but then again I've never really met anybody that would have a man's wife hanged so she could swoop in for the grab. So she says she loves him, but according to her beliefs God is love, and if she was following the word she would've found a good man, one who wasn't already married. I never got cheating either, and then calling it love. If she's going to cheat on his wife, then what makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you. I don't hate John Proctor, Arthur Miller set it up so all you could do was pity him and hate Abigail.
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
2. The Crucible, Arthur Miller, Viking Press New York,NY:1953
I wonder how Abigail would know that Mary would give the poppet to Elizabeth Proctor. Seems like that question will go unanswered. I know Abagail was behind her when she was making it, but the play never indicated that Mary was all "I'm going to give this to Elizabeth Proctor". It seems like the girls were trying to get rid of all the women, since they were cursing people. Now they seemed like misguided harlots that danced in the woods and blamed it on "witches", which were well known women throughout the community. In that case, the adults have seemingly set a bad example, with exceeding expectations and then when confessing they used scare tactics. Some people were forced to admit things they didn't do in order to live. It was a domino of lies, and it didn't want to end. Seems like none of them were good Christians, only want-to-bees that went about it the wrong way. It shows the motivation a religion can give you, whether good or bad. With something to believe in your life has more meaning and you feel like you have a purpose. So many people in The Crucible wanted to have a purpose, to achieve greatness, and expected to achieve it by going against their own supposed morals. Makes you wonder if they ever really took a good look at the bible or just recited all the right verses like a good little Christian. John and Elizabeth Proctor's life, made me wonder if things such as cheating could ever be forgiven. If it would always leave a hole, that can't help but get bigger and bigger. I'm sure they'll be alright though, because they aren't puppets that follow the crowd. The betrayal by Mary was messed up though. She was pressured, scared, and young; when she tried to tell the truth, there seemed no possible way for it to be accepted. It would only drag her down and she would be labeled as a liar any way. The devil didn't have to disguise himself in this village because he was already all around them.
The Crucible, Arthur Miller, Viking Press New York,NY:1953
I find it quite comical that right when you start reading it, the characters all come off as jealous and shady, as they all have their own hidden agenda. Reverend Parris, in denial of seeing the girls dance naked, would deny it and expect for good to still come of the girls. As two have fallen ill, they see the only choice they have is to cover their own asses no matter the cost or the blood shed. The society has many faults, their take on religion being the cause. I think it's very important for the reader not to see Christianity as a bad religion, but see the different ways people take it in. Alothough everyone was supposedly walking with God, they were quick to lie and quick to believe anything you tell them. They thought that people with the most land were blessed by God, and that status gave you power. Of course, human greed got the best of them and although some may have had a lot of land and power, they got it by ungodly means. To call themselves blessed and walking with God was a joke. In my opinion, the Salem witch trials only happened out of pure greed. I caught the line when John Proctor missed one of the ten commandments, Thou shall not commit adultery. That was a slap in the face and a that's what you get moment. All in all, John Proctor seems to be the most sane, and he sees that these people are corrupt while the religion is not. I also saw the relation of the story to times today. It's not rare, a guy cheating on his wife with a younger woman, him coming to his wits and ending it and then the jealous woman tries to ruin him. People are so concerned with not repeating history, but it makes it harder not to when people's actions are still the same throughout history. I also like the word harlot, as opposed to a whore.
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